However you need to be sure that one of you is not giving up too much for the other. Realistically you cannot downgrade your job or leave all your family and your friends behind for him to move hundreds of miles away. You will be isolating yourself from everyone who cares and if it doesn't work out-you will feel extremely bitter and angry that you sacrificed so much.
If you are considering moving closer to him-make sure you can have a really good career there, get your own apartment, make friends in the area etc Its really important that you dont become dependent on him and you should not hop from long distance to living together full time. If you do move-you will still have to move slow because when it all happens too fast-its more likely to fail.
Personally I think its too much to sacrifice and too much of a risk and I wouldn't do it because the chances of it working out are slim. If I was married to a man and he asked me to move to the other side of the country or world with him-Id probably consider it but I wouldn't do it for someone I just met and was only infatuated by.
Long distance rarely ever works long-term. You cant meet all the needs of a relationship if theres a lot of distance between you and there is nearly always trust issues. If it starts off with a rocky foundation it is very hard to build on that. If you are going to do this than you need to be very honest with each other. You need to set boundaries and ground rules.
You can either agree to see other people and keep things casual until one of you can move which is very risky for long term success or promise each other that you will both be alone until then which can work as long as you both keep that promise.
Source: http://www.loveforum.net/threads/79543-Are-long-distance-r-ships-possible
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